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Wedding Registry Checklist

A registry is optional, and it can include items, experiences or cash funds. These tasks help you decide what suits you and handle gifts calmly once the wedding is over.

By The ReadyToWeddy Team · Updated

Quick answer

What should be on a wedding registry checklist?

A registry is optional. If you’d like one, set it up 9–12 months before the wedding with a range of prices, and perhaps experiences or funds. Share the link on your wedding website. On the day, ask someone to keep gifts and cards safe; afterwards, record who gave what and send thank-you notes.

Registry checklist: 5 tasks in order

  1. 9–12 Months Before

  2. 1 Month Before

    Decide who looks after gifts and cards

    A lockable box, a watched spot and a safe way home

    1–5 weeks before

  3. First 48 Hours After

    Collect and secure gifts and cards

    Gather everything from the venue and store it safely

    Up to 2 days afterEssential

  4. First Month After

    Organize gifts and close your registry

    Handle returns, use registry perks and close it out

    Up to 3 months afterOptional

Frequently asked questions

Do you need a wedding registry?

No. A registry is optional. Some couples prefer no gifts, a charity donation or a simple note that guests’ presence is enough. If guests are likely to ask, a short message on your website helps.

When should you set up a wedding registry?

Around 9–12 months ahead works well, so it’s ready before save-the-dates or any pre-wedding parties. You can keep adding to it as the wedding approaches.

Is it okay to ask for money instead of gifts?

Many couples do, and it’s increasingly common in some cultures and less so in others. Phrase it warmly, explain what the money will go towards if you like, and keep it on your website.